I never thought in my worst nightmares that I would be writing this blog post, and I have thought about whether or not to write this but when I started this little old blog about my life I decided I was going to write everything warts and all, I knew despite the name that I would share the sad times along with the happy times because that is life. We can’t truly appreciate the happy moments without the sad moments and we can’t grow as people without the hardships.
Here goes, after some of the happiest years of our lives me and Jamie have decided to end our relationship and although it is extremely painful for both of us we have decided it’s the best thing to do for own happiness. We are both committed to keeping our friendship intact and continuing to grow as people apart and together. We both have a great love and respect for each other and still very much plan to be in each other’s lives just in a different way to before. Jamie has been and will continue to be my absolute best friend, he is still my go to person and I his.
And although I don’t want to go into a lot of detail about our actual breakup, you should know we are both doing ok ( we are both supporting each other through this time ) Jamie and Dave will still be in my blog posts and on my social media, together we are going to prove that friendship after love can work and that happiness can still be found. And something that has never happened during our relationship was Jamie writing on here, but if you keep your eyes peeled you might catch something written by him about his journey.
I started this blog with Jamie and I will continue it with his love and support, and am really excited to share a new side of my life with you and even more excited to keep you updated on how our post relationship friendship is going. I have absolutely no desire to find another relationship or start dating, I am about to start a new chapter in my life which is going to be all about me and my friendships, it’s going to involve travel and me searching to buy a house of my very own.
Here’s to a brave new world and the new world of friendship in 2017.